What to Write in a Sympathy Card

There are a few ways to go about this task. You can go short and sweet or long and descriptive. However you choose to write your card or note, know that your efforts will be appreciated.

Start with sympathy. Express your sorrow for their loss by saying that. "I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad, brother, mom, etc." Then use their name. This is especially important and will honor them. "Sally and her bubbly personality will really be missed."

If you want to keep going, tell a story about the person. "We will always remember the trip we took to the Grand Canyon with the two of you. That was one of the best vacations we ever had and we're so glad we are able to experience it with you!"

Still going? Find ways to appreciate that person. Everyone wants to hear how their loved one had a positive effect on others. "I always loved the way Jim was able to carry on a conversation with every new person he met. He was the friendliest guy and made everyone feel special. He was such a pleasure to be with."

One more thing? Offer to help in a tangible way. Don't make an open-ended offer because it may be difficult for the family to make decisions right now. Try something like, "We know this summer will be difficult, so Tom and I will be taking care of your yard for as long as you need."

Sending any sort of sympathy card or note shows you care about the family or person who is grieving a loss. If you're not sure what to say, simply send a short expression of sorrow for their loss and be sure to sign it.