What to Send Instead of Flowers

Starkson Admin • November 25, 2025

Looking For an Alternative Funeral Gift?

Flowers will always be a beautiful and heartfelt choice for a funeral gift, but some are put off by their short lifespan or the difficulty or transporting them home if the family has traveled a long way.


So perhaps something more permanent might interest you?


Reflection Stones provide a meaningful way to honor and remember a loved one. They are a beautiful way to honor a friend or family member (pets included!) Each stone weighs approximately 18 lbs. and is carefully crafted and shipped directly to your home or chosen location for convenience. Designed for display, every Reflection Stone comes with a sturdy table stand, making it easy to place in a home, garden, or memorial space. They make a great gift from a group and come in many styles (see below.)


  • $450 for a Small Stone (12"x12"x1.25")
  • $550 for a Large Stone (15"x15"x1.25")
  • Small table stand is included
  • Tax is included, as well as free shipping to Midwest states
  • Average delivery time is 2-5 days after design approval
  • Multiple designs to choose from


These beautiful jet black stones with laser engraving serve as a lasting tribute, offering comfort and reflection for years to come. Contact Minnesota Memorials of Hastings, Minnesota, to begin designing your Reflection Stone today!

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