Great Suggestions for What to Write in Your Funeral Thank You Notes
It Can Seem Like a Daunting Task, But There is a Formula.
You can certainly write your thank you notes any way you want, but there is a bit of a formula that can make things easier. Thank you cards do not have to be long and wordy. Recipients understand that this is a difficult time for you and they don't expect to receive a thank you letter; only a note. There's no set time frame to write these, but If you can get them out within a few weeks after the funeral - this is ideal. If not, people will understand. If you need help writing them, a close friend or family member will be glad to offer assistance.
"Dear (name,)" is always a good place to start. It's not too formal or casual, and it fits every occasion.
Next, thank the recipient for their condolences, gift, flowers, attendance, prayers, or however they supported you. Some examples include:
- For prayers:
“Thank you so much for thinking of us during such a difficult time. Your prayers were really comforting when I need them most.”
- For a gift or monetary donation to the family:
"Thank you so much for your generosity. It has not gone unnoticed by our family and we are blessed to know you."
- For help in planning the funeral:
"Thank you for making a difficult day easier for us. Your support and assistance were truly appreciated, and with your help, the burden was lifted off our shoulders."
- For attending the funeral:
"Thank you for coming to mom's funeral. It would have meant the world to her and we loved hearing the stories you shared. Thank you for your support."
- For a flower donation:
"Thank you for the beautiful flowers (or statue, etc.) What a perfect tribute to Aunt Sheila! We know she would have loved them and we are so grateful to have received them.
End your note or card by repeating your thanks and closing with “Yours truly," or "Love,” before signing your first and last name. If the condolence card came directly to you, sign it from you. If the card came to your family, sign it "From the family of..."
We offer thank you cards with pre-printed thank you messages. If you use these, be sure to sign your name at the bottom so there's at least one personalized element to your cards.
Did you find it difficult to write your thank you cards? Do you have any tips to share?
